Any of the 108 Intimacy Experiment Questions (a few of which are listed here).
Completing incomplete emotions (role play).
Please tell me what you are starving for? What are you hidden unmet needs?
Boast to the other person about your successes (or your failures).
I cannot commit to you because (Oroboros).
I feel angry, sad, glad, scared about you because (Oroboros).
Please give me a one minute presentation about your product or service.
Please tell me in what ways I am not present right now.
Please scan my 5 bodies and tell me what you detect.
Please tell me what I habitually do to survive.
Please tell me what I habitually do with my center.
Please tell me what I habitually do with my attention.
Please tell me your assumptions about me. Please tell me which assumptions you think are true and have made into expectations.
In order to get to know you better would you please explain to me how a person like you could arrange it so that you always / never ______________?
Please tell me about my Coolness Factor.
Pull the rug out.
Please tell me a nonlinear possibility story.
Please tell me about my Core Resonance Field.
Energetic Eyes practice (blindfolded scanning someone who sits across from you).
Please describe my discomfort zone.
Village Part 1 (silently, with a bell). Village Part 2 (stop in front of someone in the village and ask them for feedback and coaching).
What kind of conversation would you like to have with me? Please set the context for that conversation, hold space for it, and have the conversation with me.
In what ways am I afraid of intimacy?
In what ways am I afraid of power?
Someone gives a command, you say, “No!”
Someone approaches, you say, “Stop!”
Let your heart speak.
Create a low drama with me. Exit that low drama with me.
Land a distinction in this space. Get feedback and coaching.
Take a stand for something important to you.
Write down 3 important questions you have. Choose one of them. Tell three people your question. Have them ask you your own question. Answer them according to their matrix. Speak into them according to what they can hear and hold.
Please navigate me to the center of the Labyrinth with you. Tell me how I resist this. Tell me my blocks or what gets in the way.
Get centered. Anchor your grounding cord into Gaia. Let Gaia speak through you. She can say what she wants. Or she can speak to you. Or she can answer questions from the others.
Do Queenmaking / Kingmaking with the person across from you. Don’t get off it no matter what. Tell them what their resistance is to being fabulous. They give you feedback and coaching about how you did.
Please tell me to what degree you are initiated into adulthood. What do you need next?
What are you most afraid of learning about yourself?
Speak in a foreign language that you do not know.
Be radically honest about yourself with me. I give you feedback and coaching about what you avoided speaking about, and how radical you were.
Please ask me for feedback and coaching. Then: Please give me feedback and coaching about my feedback and coaching.
Please tell me how big my NOW is, what I include in this NOW, and why I keep my NOW like this.
For what is your heart secretly aching?
Please tell me the essentials of what your life is really about.
Please tell me what you would like me to recognize about you.
Please tell me what you have forgotten about yourself.
Please tell me what you have forgotten about me.
Please demonstrate several forms of Silly Walking.
Stamp Cashing. I have the stamp that I feel mad, sad, glad, scared about you because ___________.
Start something authentic. Receive feedback for the authenticity. What was missed?
Go into the gap and do not smile or laugh no matter what I do.
Please tell me what bothers you about me?
Please tell me what I still carry or enact that I got from my mother.
Please tell me what I still carry or enact that I got from my father.
Please tell me about the heroes in your family lineage who made courageous actions that allowed you to live?
Please tell me about the main things that happened to you that made you into who you are today.
What are you most afraid to become?
Please tell me about moments in your life where you have set yourself aside.
Please negotiate the 5 body intimacies you want with me.
What parts of me make you uncomfortable or insecure?
What am I not aware of that you need or want?
Please give a 1 minute talk about your purpose for being on Earth, three times in a row, each time completely different.
I have an expectation about you. I withdraw this expectation of you forever.
Answer From The Unknown
Potential / Diagnosis / Remedy
Be Radically Honest About Your Experiences And Feelings While Being An Edgeworker
What Are All Ways That I Am Avoiding Intimacy Right Now?
Push Shoulders to go into anger
Share Anger / Sadness / Fear / Joy
Completing Incomplete Emotions
Fear Of Showing Up: Here are all the ways I am afraid of showing up right now. Please tell me why I am afraid of showing up right now.
5 Body Check-In
In what ways are you feeding your 5 Bodies?
In what ways are you starving your 5 Bodies?
5 Body Scanning
Your Biggest Lie: Please reveal the lie that you are telling yourself in your life right now.
Handshake or Hug with Feedback and Coaching
Linear And Nonlinear / one-minute presentations with Rapid Learning Feedback and Coaching
Safespace Initiation: “What I would do if I experienced myself as a mountain 1000% trust.” (Group of 3, 10 min/person)
Selling Possibility: Legend Making, Create Present / Future Value, Contract